OKAY,

so im feeling quite happy from braiding my hair, that i cant fall asleep yet. So one more blog post, cause tmrw and sunday will be a busy day! So might not be able to.

 SO ANYWAY,

saw this from shaihda's fb status, she like, write quotes and such a few times a day! And some are quite nice and meaningful, dont know how she think of so many!:O

" sometimes i dont answer people truthfully when they ask me what's wrong. Cause most of the time, they dont actually care about my problems. What they care about is of knowing what's going on with everybody."

and i think it's so true.
And i admit that sometimes i do that. No, not to my good friends, obviously i sincerely care and want to know what's wrong, but to those im not very close with. It's like, i just wanna know what's up with you, and say a few sentences of comfort and advice, but do i actually sincerely want to help you make your problem dissapear? Well, i WOULd want to, but if you spend all your time trying to make everybody's problems dissapear, you're gonna be the one with problems. Eh?


And talking to ngsilin the other day, i came to the conclusion that,

whether a person wants to be your friend is not important at all. What's inportant, is that YOU want to be someone else's friend, and it's different cause when you want somebody to be your friend, you're trying to impress/kiss ass to that person, and you're not being yourself. But if you wanna be a friend to someone, it doesnt matter whether they 'like you back' or not. What matters, is that YOU, are a friend that loves him or her at all times. Whether the person likes you back, whether the person is mean to you, etc.

Cause trying to match up to what you think someone want's in a friend is quite depressing, stressful, and annoying really. And that isnt really friendship. Cause even if that person likes the person you fashioned out, it's not really you. So you might as well be yourself. And be a friend to the person. If the person likes you back, great! But if she/he doesnt, it's okay, cause you're not expecting friendship back in return.

And that's the meaning of being a friend to others. Instead of wanting other to befriend you.


There's one more thing i wanted to blog,
but
1) i forgot.
2) enough of 'reflecting' sorta posts for a day. Haha.


Time to sleep now!

Sweet cottoncandy dreams.